Looking for someone to fall for you?
Consider trying out these three simple tricks. While it may involve a bit of manipulation, rest assured it’s not dark magic and won’t coerce someone into feelings they don’t have. It simply tips the scales in your direction.
Spend time together: The more you engage with someone, the more they will grow fond of you (unless you happen to be insufferable). Skip the cool act; initially, it’s wiser to seek opportunities to be near them.
Next, pull back a little: Once you feel you’ve made a connection, it’s time to start becoming slightly less accessible. Gradually decrease your availability until they see you infrequently. This principle is known as “The Law of Scarcity.” People desire what seems unattainable.
Allow them to pamper you: When they do nice things for you, it gives them a sense of satisfaction and affection towards the person they are treating well. To rationalize their actions or expenses, they often idealize how deserving you are of such gestures.
by Susan Floyd
