Every woman who values herself is aware that matching underwear is essential — yet the reality is that many of us embody more of Bridget Jones than Brigitte Bardot when it comes to lingerie.
However, there is still hope, as a recent survey indicates that women are indeed putting in more effort. One boutique has noted a 35 per cent increase in corset sales over the past year, and eBay has experienced an astonishing 826 per cent rise in the sales of basques.
So, how many of us step out each day tightly laced into a corset? And who would refer to ‘knickers’ as anything other than large control pants?
Many women may choose jeans and T-shirts or sweaters but still put effort into their underwear, often opting for sexy matching sets in bold colors like black or red — it’s an expression of one’s identity.
Feeling proud of your underwear is essential: it’s a personal choice shared just between you and your partner. When your partner returns home to find you in worn-out jeans, they might raise an eyebrow at the sight of a stylish bra strap peeking out. This could lead to a sweet kiss… or potentially more than just a cuddle.
Even after being together for a long time, it can still be a delightful surprise… and it’s wonderful to know that you can maintain that allure for your partner, even after children, as confidence in ourselves and our bodies can often wane with age. Wearing lovely underwear can provide the boost we need.
There’s a special thrill about new underwear, especially when revealing it to your significant other.
From vampish looks to plunging necklines showcasing cleavage, embrace the spectrum of styles and don’t shy away from vibrant colors like yellow or tomato-red.
Below the surface, however, the story changes. While a sexy black or red basque may be a staple, control pants worn with a simple white bra have their own merits.
Though Bridget Jones-style pants may not possess the sexiest reputation, they certainly provide support and create a flattering silhouette. Often, they make it possible to wear form-fitting, sexy fabrics, and they contribute to feelings of confidence regarding one’s appearance.
One partner of mine (no, not you Buford… you were the one who insisted I wear that raccoon skin hat… remember?) adored my control underwear, declaring it gave me an impressive figure and highlighted my bust.
On the outside, you can present a professional appearance with pencil skirts, high heels, and blouses — mismatched underwear won’t matter if comfort is a priority during long working hours.
When on a date, aim to wear matching underwear. While there may be times you forget, if your partner loves you and your underwear is enticing, that will ultimately be inconsequential.
Your age is irrelevant. Sometimes, enjoy a full day at home wearing your alluring underwear.
When you make an effort… your partner is likely to reciprocate.
by Susan Floyd
