Like it or not, we all fantasise about someone else during sex

Who were you thinking of when you had sex last night?

Probably not your partner, a Journal of Sex Research study says. Ninety-nine per cent of attached men and eighty per cent of attached women said they’d fantasised about someone other than their partner during sex in the previous two months.

Men have a roster of images they use for fantasizing, and they’re constantly adding new ones to the mix” said Dr. Scott Haltzman, author of The secrets of Happily Married Women.

Well, I’ve got news for you doctor. I have an entire vault of images when needed! I don’t think there’s a single man or woman out there that hasn’t fantasized about someone else, whether flying solo or enjoying the horizontal mambo with a partner.

I say variety is the spice of life. If it stays just that. As long as they are still warming your bed, not someone else’s then LET THE FANTISIZING BEGIN!

To be fair, if you had a partner that looks like…well… Gerard Butler when he was filming 300 and was totally ripped, you WOULD be thinking about your partner…But not all of us are quite that lucky and occasionally have to visit a far off fantasy world. My favorite destination being Mancandyland, where all my men sit patiently awaiting my arrival.

by Susan Floyd


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