Now, let’s dive into it…here are four reasons to reconsider marrying.
1. You’ve found your soulmate: Some researchers believe the “soul mate” concept of marriage, based on love rather than practicalities, can be detrimental. They argue that only those with high incomes can truly indulge in marrying for love, while others should prioritize aspects like a partner’s earning potential to ensure longevity.
2. You aim to become a parent: Nowadays, marriage is often viewed as unnecessary for raising children. The proportion of children born to single mothers has escalated from 13% to 44%. In fact, within Western societies, there are more single mothers than married ones.
3. You’re attracted to appearance, wealth, or social standing: Although these factors can still be significant for initial attraction, what ultimately matters for a lasting relationship is compatibility. The kindness you perceive in each other and the ease of being together are far more important.
4. Because marriage is generally more beneficial for you: A substantial study revealed that couples who cohabitate long-term can enjoy the same mental, physical, and social advantages that marriage offers.
by Susan Floyd
