Dear Woosy,
Yesterday, I came home early from work and experienced a huge shock. I entered my house to find ‘Stan,’ my husband of 8 years, dressed in women’s clothing—some of which belong to me. He even had on panties, heels, and makeup! Stan insists he is not gay and claims that he wears women’s clothing to ‘unwind.’ He also revealed that he’s been doing this since his teenage years. While I don’t believe he is gay, I struggle to comprehend why he feels the need to dress in drag. What is your opinion?
Woosy says – I can certainly understand how startling it must have been for you to discover your husband looking like a character from The Crying Game.
In your message, you mentioned that some of the attire you found Stan wearing were your own. Don’t you think that’s wonderful? If you both share the same size, it means your wardrobe just doubled!
When you go shopping together, he can provide you with valuable opinions on questions you may ask, such as, ‘Do these look like hooker boots to you?’ Your soulmate also makes for an excellent shopping companion. Have you thought about how fortunate you are?
Next Saturday night, you both should slip into your most stunning dresses, glam up, and go out to the clubs together. If enjoying drinks, dancing, and even sharing your husband’s lipstick doesn’t represent the ideal union, then I would confidently say that the institution of marriage is no more!
