Dear Woosy,
My love for my boyfriend runs deep, yet the bedroom situation isn’t quite right. He struggles to keep himself in an upright position during take-off and landing, if you catch my drift. He feels that his performance is always being judged and finds my greater sexual experience intimidating. I’ve assured him that he’s got nothing to fear and, on his best days, he measures up to any of the guys I might be involved with at work. Nevertheless, his issue continues. What can I do to ease his mind?
Woosy says – What a delicate spirit your boyfriend possesses! Yet this is quite common among men. I’m sure you’ve shared the sentiment that size doesn’t matter, despite the reality that it often does—particularly if it won’t cooperate when needed. Beyond that, I’m uncertain how else to help. You could choose to stop being intimate with the men at work, but that feels excessive, especially since they seem to be the only ones who can perform. If you’re truly intent on alleviating his worries, consider what many of us girls do when faced with a similar dilemma: simply tell him a little white lie. He can maintain the belief that he reigns supreme, all while you enjoy a variety of experiences. Sounds like a win-win!